http://cureanxiety.com/what-is-borderline-disorder Fri, 03 May 2013 15:12:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.2 http://cureanxiety.com/what-is-borderline-disorder#comment-47 sarah Sun, 26 Sep 2010 13:27:37 +0000 http://cureanxiety.com/?p=172#comment-47 my boyfriend has bipolAR we have been going out 4 over 6 months and has been in t block in the second month of our relationship. it is v hard i adored and tried hard to help him. Once aggression sets in i have to turn my back he has almost destroyed me emotionally. I feel he willkill himself Through substance, prescription and drug abuse. my boyfriend has bipolAR we have been going out 4 over 6 months and has been in t block in the second month of our relationship. it is v hard i adored and tried hard to help him. Once aggression sets in i have to turn my back he has almost destroyed me emotionally. I feel he willkill himself Through substance, prescription and drug abuse.

]]> http://cureanxiety.com/what-is-borderline-disorder#comment-32 Mark Mon, 19 Apr 2010 14:32:58 +0000 http://cureanxiety.com/?p=172#comment-32 My ex-girlfriend and I are still in contact. The relationship volley-balled for 9 monthes. She was the light of my life but I found that at night she would shut down. After 8 or 9pm she was almost non existent. I would arrive home from work and most nights she would barely, just barely acknowledge me. Affixed to the tv or pc, she would quitely say hello but would not look at me. There were many instances where she would get very very angry with me over trivial things. These anger episodes would sometimes lead to her ignoring me for hours, sometimes 2 days. Also on weekends she would binge drink, the amounts of alcohol were significant eg. 12-14 beers, half a bottle to a bottle of whiskey. I loved her normal side more than anything else in this world, but I had to let go. Especially because she would semi-constantly verbally degrade me, I started to lose my self esteem. Unfortunately I started to be become very argumentative back, to defend myself. This did not help her nor I at all. This is when I knew I was in big trouble. Ultimately I left her and her 11 yr. old daughter, who I tutored every night after working 11-12 hours, and put on the honor role, (words can not express how much I love this little girl). I considered living with it all so that I could spend my life with the girl, help her in life. but the abuse bacame too great. As you can imagine the situation hurt the girl also, my deepest regret. Very sad ordeal. We live and learn. My ex-girlfriend and I are still in contact. The relationship volley-balled for 9 monthes. She was the light of my life but I found that at night she would shut down. After 8 or 9pm she was almost non existent. I would arrive home from work and most nights she would barely, just barely acknowledge me. Affixed to the tv or pc, she would quitely say hello but would not look at me. There were many instances where she would get very very angry with me over trivial things. These anger episodes would sometimes lead to her ignoring me for hours, sometimes 2 days. Also on weekends she would binge drink, the amounts of alcohol were significant eg. 12-14 beers, half a bottle to a bottle of whiskey. I loved her normal side more than anything else in this world, but I had to let go. Especially because she would semi-constantly verbally degrade me, I started to lose my self esteem. Unfortunately I started to be become very argumentative back, to defend myself. This did not help her nor I at all.
This is when I knew I was in big trouble. Ultimately I left her and her 11 yr. old daughter, who I tutored every night after working 11-12 hours, and put on the honor role, (words can not express how much I love this little girl). I considered living with it all so that I could spend my life with the girl, help her in life. but the abuse bacame too great. As you can imagine the situation hurt the girl also, my deepest regret. Very sad ordeal. We live and learn.

]]> http://cureanxiety.com/what-is-borderline-disorder#comment-31 Mark Mon, 19 Apr 2010 14:23:54 +0000 http://cureanxiety.com/?p=172#comment-31 My ex-girlfriend and I are still in contact. The relationship volley-balled for 9 monthes. She was the light of my life but I found that at night she would shut down. After 8 or 9pm she was almost non existent. I would arrive home from work and most nights she would barely, just barely acknowledge me. Affixed to the tv or pc, she would quitely say hello but would not look at me. There were many instances where she would get very very angry with me over trivial things. These anger episodes would sometimes lead to her ignoring me for hours, sometimes 2 days. Also on weekends she would binge drink, the amounts of alcohol were significant eg. 12-14 beers, half a bottle to a bottle of whiskey. I loved her normal side more than anything else in this world, but I had to let go. Especially because she would semi-constantly verbally degrade me, I started to lose my self esteem. Unfortunately I started to be become very argumentative back, to defend myself. This did not help her nor I at all. This is when I knew I was in big trouble. Ultimately I left her and her 11 yr. old daughter, who I tutored every night after working 11-12 hours, and put on the honor role, (words can not express how much I love this little girl). As you can imagine the situation hurt the girl also, my deepest regret. Very sad ordeal. We live and learn. My ex-girlfriend and I are still in contact. The relationship volley-balled for 9 monthes. She was the light of my life but I found that at night she would shut down. After 8 or 9pm she was almost non existent. I would arrive home from work and most nights she would barely, just barely acknowledge me. Affixed to the tv or pc, she would quitely say hello but would not look at me. There were many instances where she would get very very angry with me over trivial things. These anger episodes would sometimes lead to her ignoring me for hours, sometimes 2 days. Also on weekends she would binge drink, the amounts of alcohol were significant eg. 12-14 beers, half a bottle to a bottle of whiskey. I loved her normal side more than anything else in this world, but I had to let go. Especially because she would semi-constantly verbally degrade me, I started to lose my self esteem. Unfortunately I started to be become very argumentative back, to defend myself. This did not help her nor I at all.
This is when I knew I was in big trouble. Ultimately I left her and her 11 yr. old daughter, who I tutored every night after working 11-12 hours, and put on the honor role, (words can not express how much I love this little girl). As you can imagine the situation hurt the girl also, my deepest regret. Very sad ordeal. We live and learn.

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