What is Borderline Disorder
Borderline disorder is a disorder in which the patient may experience symptoms which can be associated with borderline personality disorder. The patient may experience split personalities and become unable to control the actions which are completed when other “personalities” take over the mind and the body.
There may be a loss of identity that occurs in the patient as the result of trauma or stress. The patient tries to bury these memories within the subconscious and at times a new personality may surface that can take over the identity and have a completely changed personality. In most cases, the people that are suffering from borderline disorder may be unable to control the actions which are completed under the influence of the other personality that has been created.
Symptoms and signs that someone may be suffering from borderline disorder include impulsiveness or a lack of memory of the events which have led to a certain time, or even the denial of completing activities even though sufficient proof exists.
There may be dramatic changes that occur within the behavior and the personality of an individual which can lead to the suspect as well as the diagnosis of borderline disorder.
Many medications have been proven effective in reducing the symptoms which are associated with borderline disorder. Alternatively, therapy can assist the patient in dealing with the thoughts or trauma that led to the borderline disorder, helping to eradicate the symptoms which are associated with it.
Mark says:
My ex-girlfriend and I are still in contact. The relationship volley-balled for 9 monthes. She was the light of my life but I found that at night she would shut down. After 8 or 9pm she was almost non existent. I would arrive home from work and most nights she would barely, just barely acknowledge me. Affixed to the tv or pc, she would quitely say hello but would not look at me. There were many instances where she would get very very angry with me over trivial things. These anger episodes would sometimes lead to her ignoring me for hours, sometimes 2 days. Also on weekends she would binge drink, the amounts of alcohol were significant eg. 12-14 beers, half a bottle to a bottle of whiskey. I loved her normal side more than anything else in this world, but I had to let go. Especially because she would semi-constantly verbally degrade me, I started to lose my self esteem. Unfortunately I started to be become very argumentative back, to defend myself. This did not help her nor I at all.
This is when I knew I was in big trouble. Ultimately I left her and her 11 yr. old daughter, who I tutored every night after working 11-12 hours, and put on the honor role, (words can not express how much I love this little girl). As you can imagine the situation hurt the girl also, my deepest regret. Very sad ordeal. We live and learn.
Mark says:
My ex-girlfriend and I are still in contact. The relationship volley-balled for 9 monthes. She was the light of my life but I found that at night she would shut down. After 8 or 9pm she was almost non existent. I would arrive home from work and most nights she would barely, just barely acknowledge me. Affixed to the tv or pc, she would quitely say hello but would not look at me. There were many instances where she would get very very angry with me over trivial things. These anger episodes would sometimes lead to her ignoring me for hours, sometimes 2 days. Also on weekends she would binge drink, the amounts of alcohol were significant eg. 12-14 beers, half a bottle to a bottle of whiskey. I loved her normal side more than anything else in this world, but I had to let go. Especially because she would semi-constantly verbally degrade me, I started to lose my self esteem. Unfortunately I started to be become very argumentative back, to defend myself. This did not help her nor I at all.
This is when I knew I was in big trouble. Ultimately I left her and her 11 yr. old daughter, who I tutored every night after working 11-12 hours, and put on the honor role, (words can not express how much I love this little girl). I considered living with it all so that I could spend my life with the girl, help her in life. but the abuse bacame too great. As you can imagine the situation hurt the girl also, my deepest regret. Very sad ordeal. We live and learn.
sarah says:
my boyfriend has bipolAR we have been going out 4 over 6 months and has been in t block in the second month of our relationship. it is v hard i adored and tried hard to help him. Once aggression sets in i have to turn my back he has almost destroyed me emotionally. I feel he willkill himself Through substance, prescription and drug abuse.